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September 3, 2014
Family Fosters Vocations
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August 26, 2014
Family Fosters Vocations!
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August 20, 2014
Family Fosters Vocations!
The communities from which the candidate for the priesthood comes continue, albeit with the necessary detachment which is involved by the choice of a vocation, to bear considerable influence on the formation of the future priest. They should therefore be aware of their specific share of responsibility. Let us mention first of all the family: Christian parents, as also brothers and sisters and the other members of the family, should never seek to call back the future priest within the narrow confines of a too human (if not worldly) logic, no matter how supported by sincere affection that logic may be (cf. Mk. 3 :20-21, 31-35). Instead, driven by the same desire “to fulfill the will of God,” they should accompany the formative journey with prayer, respect, the good example of the domestic virtues and spiritual and material help, especially in difficult moments. Experience teaches that, in so many cases, this multiple help has proved decisive for candidates for the priesthood. Even in the case of parents or relatives who are indifferent or opposed to the choice of a vocation, a clear and calm facing of the situation and the encouragement which derives from it can be a great help to the deeper and more determined maturing of a priestly vocation. (#68)
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August 15, 2014
Assumption of Mary & Vocations
Apostolic Exhortation, Pastores Dabo Vobis, 1992
August 12, 2014
Family Fosters Vocations!
Apostolic Exhortation, Pastores Dabo Vobis, 1992
A very special responsibility falls upon the Christian family, which by virtue of the sacrament of matrimony shares in its own unique way in the educational mission of the Church – teacher and mother…. The Christian family, which is truly a “domestic Church” (Lumen Gentium, 11), has always offered and continues to offer favorable conditions for the birth of vocations. Since the reality of the Christian family is endangered nowadays, much importance should be given to pastoral work on behalf of the family, in order that the families themselves, generously accepting the gift of human life, may be “as it were, a first seminary” (Optatam Totius, 2) in which children can acquire from the beginning an awareness of piety and prayer and love for the Church. Following upon and in harmony with the work of parents and the family, the school is also called to live its identity as an “educating community” by providing a correct understanding of the dimension of vocation as an innate and fundamental value of the human person. In this sense, if it is endowed with a Christian spirit (either by a significant presence of members of the Church in state schools, following the laws of each country, or above all in the case of the Catholic school), it can infuse in the hearts of boys and young men a desire to do God’s will in that state in life which is most suitable to each person, and never excluding the vocation to the priestly ministry. (#41)
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April 16, 2014
Over Discernment?
This is a very challenging Article, but it makes some very good points.
Stop Waiting for Your Calling
There seems to be an unsettling trend amongst many able-bodied young Catholics to spend a near minimum of five years – if not longer – “discerning” their vocations. Yes, there are exceptions for those who have been through traumatic events in their life, who have suffered abuse, who still need to mature, and so forth. But generally few have any reason to take so much time in order to make a decision.
To take one example, there are many Catholic couples who have been in exclusive relationships for 3, 4, or even 5 or more years without ever becoming engaged (Crazy!). If one still has doubts after dating someone for up to a year (concupiscence doesn’t help in extending a relationship much longer than unless there is a commitment to marriage), break it off! The heart needs to be protected from growing too attached to someone who does not intend to commit. It’s one thing to be engaged for some time (if the man is deployed, etc.), but as a matter of general practice, the Church recommends engagements no longer than a year to 2 at most in order to be a safeguard for one’s virtue.
It is a similar situation for those in religious life or the priesthood. God isn’t going to finally let someone know after 10, 15, or even 20 years that that isn’t their vocation; one will know the answer to that question long before. It seems that those who leave after a substantial time usually come to realize that they should have left long ago.
What is this crisis? While there is by no means an exhaustive list of reasons as to why this “perpetual discernment” is so commonplace, it seems that a great part of this problem bay be tied to many discerners’ desire to “look for signs” and other mystical confirmations. This phenomenon is characterized by long periods of waiting, “just to know for sure.’ Speaking from personal experience – both my own and from being intimately involved in helping and guiding others in their vocation process over the years – I can tell you that God speaks to us not in extraordinary capacities, but through the means of our everyday existence. He will not knock you off your seat and tell you what he wants; those sort of revelations are rare circumstances. He also doesn’t promise absolute clarity about everything – faith is “faith” for a reason. However, God does promise to be with us “until the end of time,” and therein is our consolation. He gives us his alter Christus – the priest – as a director and confessor in order to guide our reasoning and our decisions. If there is difficulty discerning, why not follow the advice of one’s spiritual director?
God isn’t going to make someone spend the greater part of his youth trying to just “figure things out,” or penalize someone for “accidentally” choosing the wrong path. God has given each of us particular talents, abilities, desires, and inclinations. If we really listen – if we pray – he will speak to our hearts and draw us towards his divine will. But he does so quietly, softly, like the “still small voice” (1 Kings 9:11). You will not find him in the wind, the earthquake, or the fire, so stop looking there. Instead, make a decision and go forward in confidence and peace. If you are truly seeking God’s will and are doing what you’ve decided is best, God will bring it to fruition; if it is not his will, he will quickly alter your course. And he won’t take a decade or longer to do it, causing you to live in the dark for so long a time. In fact, the moment you make a resolution and act upon it, wonderful things happen. And this affirmation is enough to give us the peace and strength to keep pushing onward and upward.
For more on this article: http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:http://www.aleteia.org/en/lifestyle/article/stop-waiting-for-your-calling-5224640381190144
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March 14, 2014
Saint Vincent Archabbey will host an Easter Triduum "Come and See" discernment weekend for single Catholic men ages 21-40 on April 17 - 20, 2012. A "Come and See" weekend is a no-strings-attached chance to spend time learning about the life of Benedictine Monks of St. Vincent Archabbey. Come pray with us, talk with our junior monks, meet our older brethren, and most of all listen for the voice of Christ who continually calls men to a life of work and prayer in service to the Catholic Church. For more information about the weekend, life as a Benedictine monk, or to schedule another time to visit the Abbey please contact Fr. Max, OSB at 724-532-6655 or by email at: maximilian.maxwell@email.stvincent.edu
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August 22, 2013
VITA CONSECRATA
POST-SYNODAL
APOSTOLIC EXHORTATION
VITA CONSECRATA
OF THE HOLY FATHER
JOHN PAUL II
TO THE BISHOPS AND CLERGY
RELIGIOUS ORDERS AND CONGREGATIONS
SOCIETIES OF APOSTOLIC LIFE
SECULAR INSTITUTES
AND ALL THE FAITHFUL
ON THE CONSECRATED LIFE AND ITS MISSION
IN THE CHURCH AND IN THE WORLD
INTRODUCTION
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Pope St. John Paul II |
The Consecrated Life, deeply rooted in the example and teaching of Christ the Lord, is a gift of God the Father to his Church through the Holy Spirit. By the profession of the evangelical counsels the characteristic features of Jesus — the chaste, poor and obedient one — are made constantly "visible" in the midst of the world and the eyes of the faithful are directed towards the mystery of the Kingdom of God already at work in history, even as it awaits its full realization in heaven.
In every age there have been men and women who, obedient to the Father's call and to the prompting of the Spirit, have chosen this special way of following Christ, in order to devote themselves to him with an "undivided" heart (cf. 1 Cor 7:34). Like the Apostles, they too have left everything behind in order to be with Christ and to put themselves, as he did, at the service of God and their brothers and sisters. In this way, through the many charisms of spiritual and apostolic life bestowed on them by the Holy Spirit, they have helped to make the mystery and mission of the Church shine forth, and in doing so have contributed to the renewal of society.
In every age there have been men and women who, obedient to the Father's call and to the prompting of the Spirit, have chosen this special way of following Christ, in order to devote themselves to him with an "undivided" heart (cf. 1 Cor 7:34). Like the Apostles, they too have left everything behind in order to be with Christ and to put themselves, as he did, at the service of God and their brothers and sisters. In this way, through the many charisms of spiritual and apostolic life bestowed on them by the Holy Spirit, they have helped to make the mystery and mission of the Church shine forth, and in doing so have contributed to the renewal of society.
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August 9, 2013
Benedictine Vows (Part 3 of 3)
After a year of discerning one's vocation in the Novitiate, a Benedictine Monk Professes Three Vows: Obedience, Conversion of Life, and Stability. I hope to offer a separate reflection on each of these vows; today we will take of the vow of "Stability" by which a monk seeks to live the monastic life in the context of a specific community, supporting the community through his work and prayer. Below is a passage taken from Thomas A. Kempis' spiritual masterpiece, The Imitation of Christ.
Devout persons always carry Jesus, their Consoler, with them, and say to Him: "Be with me, Lord Jesus, in every place and at all times, that I may have the special grace to forgo all human solace for love of You; and if Your comfort is withdrawn, let Your will and Your just trial of me be like the greatest comfort. For He will not always rebuke, nor will He remain angry forever (Ps 103:9)
Stability
True Solace is to be Sought in God Alone
Devout persons always carry Jesus, their Consoler, with them, and say to Him: "Be with me, Lord Jesus, in every place and at all times, that I may have the special grace to forgo all human solace for love of You; and if Your comfort is withdrawn, let Your will and Your just trial of me be like the greatest comfort. For He will not always rebuke, nor will He remain angry forever (Ps 103:9)August 7, 2013
Benedictine Vows (Part 2 of 3)
After a year of discerning one's vocation in the Novitiate, a Benedictine Monk Professes Three Vows: Obedience, Conversion of Life, and Stability. I hope to offer a separate reflection on each of these vows; today we will take of the vow of "Conversion of Life" by which a monk promises to take up his Cross each day, dying to self in his loving service to God and to neighbor. Below is a passage taken from Thomas A. Kempis' spiritual masterpiece, The Imitation of Christ.
Our Lord says: "The Kingdom of God is in your midst" (Lk 17:21). The only way your soul will find rest is to turn to God with your whole heart and abandon this wretched world. Learn to despise exterior things and give your attention to the inner things; then you will see the Kingdom of God come within you...
Lose no time, then, faithful soul, in preparing your heart to meet Christ, the Beloved, so that He may come and live in you. Does He not say: "Whoever loves Me will keep My word,... We will come to him and make Our abode with him" (Jn 14:23)? Therefore, make room for Him in your heart and shut out all others...
When our Lord lived on earth He was looked down upon by people, and in the hour of His greatest need, He was left by His friends to bear insults and shame.
Can you dare to complain when Christ was so willing to suffer and be despised? Do you expect all to be your friends and patrons, when Christ was surrounded by enemies and slanders?
If all goes well with you on earth, how can you expect to be crowned in Heaven for a patience you never practiced? How can you be Christ's friend if you will not be opposed? Therefore, you must suffer with Christ and for Christ, if you want to reign with Him...
Those who love Jesus and the truth, who lead an interior life free from unruly affections, can turn to God at will, life themselves up in spirit and repose in Christ with joy.
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Interior Conversion |
Lose no time, then, faithful soul, in preparing your heart to meet Christ, the Beloved, so that He may come and live in you. Does He not say: "Whoever loves Me will keep My word,... We will come to him and make Our abode with him" (Jn 14:23)? Therefore, make room for Him in your heart and shut out all others...
When our Lord lived on earth He was looked down upon by people, and in the hour of His greatest need, He was left by His friends to bear insults and shame.
Can you dare to complain when Christ was so willing to suffer and be despised? Do you expect all to be your friends and patrons, when Christ was surrounded by enemies and slanders?
If all goes well with you on earth, how can you expect to be crowned in Heaven for a patience you never practiced? How can you be Christ's friend if you will not be opposed? Therefore, you must suffer with Christ and for Christ, if you want to reign with Him...
Those who love Jesus and the truth, who lead an interior life free from unruly affections, can turn to God at will, life themselves up in spirit and repose in Christ with joy.
August 5, 2013
Benedictine Vows (Part 1 of 3)
After a year of discerning one's vocation in the Novitiate, a Benedictine Monk Professes Three Vows: Obedience, Conversion of Life, and Stability. I hope to offer a separate reflection on each of these vows; today we will begin with the vow of "Obedience" by which a monk strives to hear and obey the Word of God in the person of the Abbot. Below is a passage taken from Thomas A. Kempis' spiritual masterpiece, The Imitation of Christ.
Obedience
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Thomas A. Kempis |
Go where you will, but you will never find rest except in humble obedience to the rule of your superior. Many are deceived by thinking that a change of location will solve their difficulties.
In reality, all of us are inclined to do our own will and agree more readily with those who hold with our views. But if we want to have the presence of God among us, then we must be willing to give up our own way in order to live in love and harmony with others. Surely there are no persons so wise that they know everything.
Therefore, listen to the opinions of others and do not trust too much in your own point of view. Perhaps you are right, but by setting aside your own will and following another out of love for God, you will profit by it.
I have often heard it said that it is surer to take advice than to give it! It is good to listen to every person's advice; but when it is sound, to disagree is sheer stubbornness.
July 31, 2013
Pope Benedict XVI's Message for the World Day of Prayer for Vocations (2006)
Theme: Vocation in the Mystery of the Church
In order to respond to the call of God and start on our journey, it is not necessary to be already perfect. We know that the prodigal son’s awarenessof his own sin allowed him to set out on his return journey and thus feel the joy of reconciliation with the Father. Weaknesses and human limitations do not present an obstacle, as long as they help make us more aware of the fact that we are in need of the redeeming grace of Christ. This is the experience of St Paul who confessed: “I will all the more gladly boast of my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest upon me” (2 Cor 12,9). In the mystery of the Church, the mystical Body of Christ, the divine power of love changes the heart of man, making him able to communicate the love of God to his brothers and sisters. Throughout the centuries many men and women, transformed by divine love, have consecrated their lives to the cause of the Kingdom. Already on the shores of the Sea of Galilee, many allowed themselves to be won by Jesus: they were in search of healing in body or spirit, and they were touched by the power of his grace. Others were chosen personally by Him and became his apostles. We also find some, like Mary Magdalene and others, who followed him on their own initiative, simply out of love. Like the disciple John, they too found a special place in his heart. These men and women, who knew the mystery of the love of the Father through Jesus, represent the variety of vocations which have always been present in the Church. The model of one called to give witness in a particular manner to the love of God, is Mary, the Mother of Jesus, who in her pilgrimage of faith is directly associated with the mystery of the Incarnation and Redemption.
To Read the Holy Father's entire message: http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/messages/vocations/documents/hf_ben-xvi_mes_20060305_xliii-vocations_en.html
July 27, 2013
Pope Francis' Powerful Message to Monks & Seminarians (Part 3 of 3)
Vatican City,
Here is a
translation of Pope Francis’ address to the participants of the meeting on
Saturday with seminarians, novices and young people on their vocation path who
took part in the Year of Faith pilgrimage entitled “I Trust in You”.
To read part 1: http://www.zenit.org/en/articles/pope-francis-address-to-seminarians-and-novices-part-1
To read part 2: http://www.zenit.org/en/articles/pope-francis-address-to-seminarians-and-novices-part-2
Part 3 of 3
And here I
would like to stress the importance, in community life, of the relations of
friendship and fraternity that are an integral part of this formation. Here we
arrive at another problem. Why do I talk about relations of friendship and
fraternity? So many times I’ve found communities, seminarians, Religious or
diocesan communities where the most common short prayer is gossip! It’s
terrible! They “skin” one another … And this is our clerical, religious world
…Excuse me, but it’s common: jealousy, envy, to speak badly of another. Not
just speaking badly of superiors, this is classic! But I tell you that this is
so common, so common. I have also fallen into this. I’ve done it so many times,
so many times! And I’m ashamed! I’m ashamed of this! It’s not right to do so:
to go and gossip. “Have you heard … Have you heard …” But such a community is a
hell! This does no good. And because of this, the relation of friendship and of
fraternity is
important. Friends are few. The Bible says this: friends, one,
two … But fraternity among all. If I have something against a sister or a
brother, I say it to her/his face, or I say it to her or him who can help, but
I don’t say it to others to “soil” him/her. And gossip is terrible! Behind
gossip, under gossip, there are envies, jealousies, ambitions. Think of this.
Once after spiritual exercises I heard a person – a consecrated person, a nun …
This is good! This nun had promised the Lord that she would never speak badly
again of another. This is a beautiful, a beautiful path to holiness! Not to
speak badly of others. “But, Father, there are problems …”: tell them to the
superior, to the bishop, who can remedy it. But do not tell it to him who can’t
help. Fraternity: this is important! But tell me, would you speak badly
of your mother, of your father, of your siblings? Never. And why do you do so
in consecrated life, in the seminary, in the presbyterial life? This alone:
think of it, think of it … Fraternity! This fraternal love.
However,
there are two extremes in this aspect of friendship and fraternity, two
extremes: both isolation as well as dissipation. A friendship and a fraternity
that will help me not to fall into isolation or dissipation. Cultivate friendships,
they are a precious good: however, they must educate you not to shut yourselves
in but to go out of yourselves. A priest, a man religious, a woman religious
can never be an island, but must always be a person ready for encounter.
Friendships the are also enriched by the different charisms of your
Religious Families. It’s a great richness. We think of the beautiful
friendships of so many Saints.
I think I
must make some cuts, because your patience is great!
[Seminarians:
“Noooo!”]
I would
like to say to you: go out of yourselves to proclaim the Gospel, but to do this
you must go out of yourselves to encounter Jesus. There are two ways out:
one towards the encounter with Jesus, towards transcendence; the other
towards others to proclaim Jesus. These two go together. If you just do one,
it’s no good. I think of Mother Teresa of Calcutta. This nun was good
… She
wasn’t afraid of anything, she went out on the streets … But this woman was
also not afraid to kneel down, for two hours, before the Lord. Don’t be afraid
to go out of yourselves in prayer and in pastoral action. Be courageous in
praying and in going to proclaim the Gospel.
I would
like a more missionary Church, one that is not so tranquil. A beautiful Church
that goes forward. Over these days so many men and women missionaries have come
to the morning Mass, here at Saint Martha’s, and when they greeted me, they’ve
said: “But I’m an elderly nun, I’ve been in the Ciad for forty years, I’ve been
here and there …” How beautiful! But have you understood that this nun passed
these years like this, because she never ceased to encounter Jesus in prayer.
It is necessary to go out of oneself, towards transcendence to Jesus in prayer,
towards the transcendence of others in the apostolate, in work. Make your contribution
to a Church such as this: faithful to the way that Jesus desires. Don’t learn
from us, from us who are no longer very young; don’t learn from us that sport
that we, the elderly, often engage in: the sport of lament! Don’t learn from us
the cult of the complaining goddess.” She is a goddess that is always
lamenting. But be positive, cultivate the spiritual life and at the same time,
go out, be able to meet people, especially those most scorned and
disadvantaged. Don’t be afraid to go against the current. Be contemplatives and
missionaries. Have Our Lady always with you, pray the Rosary, please … Don’t
abandon it! Always have Our Lady with you in your home, as the Apostle John had
her. May she always accompany you and protect you. And pray also for me,
because I am also in need of prayer, because I’m a poor sinner, but we go
forward.
Thank you
so much and we will see one another tomorrow. And go forward with joy, with
coherence, always with the courage to tell the truth, the courage to go out of
oneself to meet Jesus in prayer and to go out of oneself to meet others and
give them the Gospel, with pastoral fruitfulness! Please don’t be “spinsters”
and “bachelors.” Go forward!
Now
Archbishop Fisichella said that yesterday you recited the Creed, each one in
his/her own language. However, we are all brothers, we have the same Father.
Now, each one in his/her language, recite the Our Father. Let us recite the Our
Father.
[Recitation
of the Our Father]
And we
also have a Mother. In our own language we say the Hail Mary.
[Recitation
of the Hail Mary]
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July 26, 2013
Pope Francis' Powerful Message to Monks & Seminarians (Part 2 of 3)
Vatican City, July 10, 2013
Here is a translation of Pope Francis’ address
to the participants of the meeting on Saturday with seminarians, novices and
young people on their vocation path who took part in the Year of Faith
pilgrimage entitled “I Trust in You”.
To read part 1: http://www.zenit.org/en/articles/pope-francis-address-to-seminarians-and-novices-part-1
Part 2 of 3
However, I don’t want to embarrass this holy
nun [he turns to an elderly nun in the front row] who was behind the barrier,
poor thing, she was in fact suffocated, but she had a happy face. It did me
good to look at your face, Sister! Perhaps you have many years of consecrated
life, but you have beautiful eyes, you smiled, you didn’t complain about the
pressure. When you find examples such as this, many, so many nuns, so many
priests who are joyful, it’s because they are fruitful, they give life, life,
life. They give this life because they find it in Jesus! In the joy of Jesus!
Joy, not sadness, pastoral fruitfulness.
To be joyful witnesses of the Gospel we must be
genuine, coherent. And this is another word I wish to say to you: authenticity.
Jesus so castigated hypocrites: hypocrites, those who think low;
Those who have – to say it clearly, a double
face. It doesn’t cost to speak to young people of authenticity, because young
people – all of them – have the desire to be authentic, to be coherent. And it
makes all of you ill, when you see in us priests who aren’t authentic and nuns
who aren’t authentic!
This is, first of all, a responsibility of
adults, of formators. It is up to you, formators here present to give an
example of coherence to the younger ones. Do we want coherent young people?
Let’s us be coherent! Otherwise, the Lord will say to us what he said of the
Pharisees to the people of God: “Do what they say, but not what they do!”
Coherence and authenticity!
However, you also, in turn, must seek to follow
this way. I always say what Saint Francis of Assisi affirmed: Christ has
invited us to proclaim the Gospel also with the word. The phrase goes like
this: “Proclaim the Gospel always, and, if necessary, with words.” What does
this mean? It means to proclaim the Gospel with the authenticity of life, with
the coherence of life. However, in this world in which riches do so much evil,
it’s necessary that we priests, that we nuns, that all of us be coherent with
our poverty! However, when you find that the first concern of an educational,
or parochial or any institution is money, this doesn’t do good. It doesn’t do
good! It’s incoherent! We must be coherent, authentic. On this path, we do what
Saint Francis said: we preach the Gospel with our example, then with words! But
first of all is our life in which others must be able to read the Gospel! Here,
too, without fear, with our defects which we try to correct, with our
limitations which the Lord knows, but also with our generosity in allowing Him
to act in us. With our defects, our limitations and – I add something more – with
our sins … I would like to know something: is there someone here in this
Room who isn’t a sinner, who has no sins? Let him raise his hand! Let him raise
his hand! Nobody. Nobody. From here right down to the end … all! But how do I
carry my sin, my sins? I want give you this counsel: be transparent with your
confessor, always. Tell him everything; don’t be afraid. “Father, I have
sinned!” Think of the Samaritan woman, who to prove, to tell her fellow
citizens that she had found the Messiah, said: “He told me everything I’ve
done,” and everyone knew this woman’s life. Always tell the truth to your
confessor. This transparency will do you good, because it makes one humble, all
of us. “But Father, I have continued in this, I’ve done this, I’ve hated” -- no
matter what it is. Tell the truth, without concealing, without half words,
because you are talking to Jesus in the person of the confessor. And Jesus
knows the truth. He alone always forgives you! However, the Lord only wants you
to tell him what He already knows. Transparency! It’s sad when one finds a
seminarian, a nun who today confesses with this priest to clean the stain;
tomorrow goes to another, to another, to another: a pilgrimage to
confessors to conceal her truth. Transparency! It’s Jesus who is listening to
you. Always have this transparency before Jesus in the confessor! However, this
is a grace. Father, I have sinned,
I’ve done this, this, this … with all the
words. And the Lord embraces you, kisses you! Go, and sin no more! And if you
fall once again? I say this from experience. I have found so many consecrated
persons who fall into this hypocritical trap of lack of transparency. “I’ve
done this,” humbly, as that publican who was at the back of the Temple: “I’ve
done this, I’ve done this…” And the Lord covers your mouth: He it is who covers
it.” But don’t you do so! Have you understood? From sin itself grace abounds!
Open the door to grace, with this transparency!
The saints and the masters of the spiritual
life tell us that the daily practice of the examination of conscience is very
useful, even indispensable, to help us grow in authenticity in our life. What
is happening in my soul? Thus, we must be open with the Lord and then with our
confessor, with our spiritual Father. This is so important!
Until what time, Archbishop Fisichella, have we
time?
[Archbishop Fisichella: If you speak like this,
we will be here until tomorrow, absolutely].
You say until tomorrow. Let’s bring a sandwich
and a Coca Cola for each one if it’s until tomorrow, at least ….
For our witness to be credible, coherence is
essential. But it’s not enough. We also need cultural preparation, I stress
cultural preparation, to give the reason for our faith and our hope. The
context in which we live calls constantly for this “giving reason,” and it’s
something good, because it helps us to take nothing for granted. Today we can
take nothing for granted! This civilization, this culture … we can’t.
However, it’s also certainly timely; it requires good, balanced formation
that unites all the dimensions of life, the human, the spiritual, the
intellectual dimension with the pastoral. There are four fundamental pillars in
your formation: spiritual formation, that is, the spiritual life; the
intellectual life, studying to “give reason”; the apostolic life, to begin to
go out to proclaim the Gospel; and fourth, community life. Four. And for the
latter it’s necessary that the formation be in community in the novitiate, in
the priory, in the seminaries … I always think this: the worst seminary is
better than no seminary! Why? Because community life is necessary. Remember the
four pillars: spiritual life, intellectual life, apostolic life, and communal
life. These four, you should build your vocation on these four.
[Translation by ZENIT]
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July 25, 2013
Pope Francis' Powerful Message to Monks & Seminarians (Part 1 of 3)
Vatican City, (Zenit.org)
Here is a translation of Pope Francis’ address to the participants of the meeting on Saturday with seminarians, novices and young people on their vocation path who took part in the Year of Faith pilgrimage entitled “I Trust in You”.
Part 1 of 3
Br. Isaac & Br. Joachim attended Pope Francis' Address to Monks and Seminarians
Good Evening! I asked Archbishop Fisichella if you understood
Italian and he told me that you all have the translation. I am somewhat calmed.
I thank Archbishop Fisichella for his words and I also thank him for
his work: he has worked so much not only to do this but for all that he has
done and will do in the Year of Faith. Thank you so much! However, Archbishop
Fisichella said a word, and I don’t know if it’s true, but I take it up: he
said that all of you wished to give your life forever to Christ! Now you
applaud, celebrate, because it is the time of nuptials … However, when the
honeymoon is over, what happens? I heard a seminarian, a good seminarian who
said he wanted to serve Christ, but for ten years, and then he would think of
starting another life … This is dangerous! However provisional, but this is
dangerous because one does not gamble one’s life once and for all. I marry as
long as love lasts; I will be a nun but for a “short time,” for “some time,”
and then I’ll see; I will be a seminarian to become a priest, but I don’t know
how the story will end. This is not right with Jesus! I will not reproach you,
I reproach this culture of the provisional, which beats us all, because it
doesn’t do us good: because a definitive choice today is very difficult. In my
time it was easier, because the culture favored a definitive choice be it for
matrimonial life, or the consecrated or priestly life. However, in this age a
definitive choice isn’t easy. We are victims of this culture of the
provisional. I would like you to think about learning to close the door of our
interior cell from inside. Once a priest, a good priest, who didn’t feel he was
a good priest because he was humble, felt himself a sinner and prayed much to
Our Lady and said this to Our Lady – I will say it in Spanish because it’s a
lovely poem: “This afternoon, Lady, the promise is sincere. Just in case, don’t
forget to leave the key outside”. But this is said thinking always of love for
the Virgin; it is said to Our Lady. However, when one always leaves the
key outside, because of what might happen … This is not right. We must
learn to close the door from inside! And if I’m not sure, I must think, must
take time, and when I feel secure in Jesus, I understand, because no one is
secure without Jesus! – when I feel secure, I close the door. Have you
understood this? What is the culture of the provisional?
When I came in, I saw what I had written. I would like to say a word
to you, and that word is joy. Wherever there are consecrated persons,
seminarians, women and men religious, young people, there is joy, there is
always joy. It’s the joy of freshness; it’s the joy of following Jesus; the joy
that the Holy Spirit gives us, not the world’s joy. There is joy. But where is
joy born? It is born … However, on Saturday evening I will go home and
will dance with my old companions. Is joy born from this, the joy of a
seminarian, for instance, yes or no?
Some will say: joy is born from the things one has, and so, the
search for the latest model of the smartphone, the fastest scooter, the car
that attracts attention … But I tell you, really, I feel badly when I see a
priest or a nun with the latest model car: but this can’t be! You are thinking
this: but, Father, must we now go on bicycles? The bicycle is good! Monsignor
Alfred goes on bicycle, he goes with his bicycle. I think a car is necessary,
because so much work must be done here and there, but choose a more modest
bicycle! And if you like a lovely one, think of how many children die of
hunger, think of this alone! Joy is not born, does not come from the things one
has! Others say it comes from the most extreme experiences: to feel the
thrill of the strongest sensations; youth likes to live on the knife’s edge, it
really likes this! Others think it comes from dressing more fashionably, from
entertainment in the most fashionable places – but in saying this I’m not
saying that nuns go to such places, I say it of young people in general.
Others, yet, from success with girls or boys, go perhaps from one to the other.
It’s this insecurity of love, which isn’t secure; it’s a “test” of love.” And
we could continue … You also are in contact with this reality which you can’t
ignore.
We know that all this can extinguish a desire, can create emotions,
but in the end it’s a joy that remains superficial, it doesn’t go deep down,
it’s not a profound joy: it’s the inebriation of a moment that does not render
us truly happy. Joy is not the inebriation of a moment, it’s something else!
True joy doesn’t come from things, from having, no! It’s born from
the encounter, from the relation with others. It’s born from feeling accepted,
understood, loved and from this acceptance, this understanding and this love,
and not because it’s of interest for the moment, but because the other, the
other is a person. Joy is born from the gratuitousness of an encounter! And
from hearing it said: “You are important to me,” not necessarily in words. This
is beautiful … And it is this, in fact, that God makes us understand. In
calling us God says to us: “You are important to me, I love you, I count on
you.” Jesus says this to each one of us! Joy is born from here, the joy of the
moment in which Jesus looked at me. To understand and to feel this is the
secret of our joy. To feel loved by God, to feel that for Him we are not
numbers, but persons; and to feel that it is He who calls us. To become
priests, Religious is not primarily our choice. I don’t trust the seminarian,
the novice who says: “I have chosen this path.” I don’t like this. It’s not
right! But it is the response to a call and to a call of love. I hear something
within me, which makes me restless, and I answer yes. The Lord makes us feel
this love in prayer, but also through so many signs that we can read in our
life, so many persons that He puts on our path. And the joy of the encounter
with Him and of His call leads not to closing ourselves but to opening
ourselves; it leads to service in the Church. Saint Thomas said “bonus est
diffusivum sui” – it’s not too difficult Latin! – Good diffuses itself. And joy
also diffuses itself. Don’t be afraid to show the joy of having answered the
Lord’s call, of the choice to love and witness His Gospel in the service of the
Church. And joy, real joy, is contagious; it infects … it makes us go forward.
Instead, when one comes across a seminarian who is too serious, too sad, or a
similar novice, one thinks: but something is wrong! The joy of the Lord is
lacking, the joy that leads one to service, the joy of the encounter with
Jesus, which leads one to the encounter with others to proclaim Jesus. This is
lacking! There’s no holiness in sadness, there isn’t! Saint Teresa – there are
so many Spaniards who know her well – said: “A sad Saint is a sorry Saint!”
It’s not much … When one comes across a seminarian, a priest, a nun, a novice,
with a long, sad face, who seems as though a very wet covering has been thrown
over his/her life, a heavy covering that pulls them down … something is wrong!
But please, let us never have nuns, never have priests with the face of a
“pepper in vinegar,” never! But with the joy that comes from Jesus. Think of
this: when joy is lacking in a priest – I say a priest, but a seminarian also
-- when joy is lacking in a nun, when she is sad, you can think: “But it’s a
psychiatric problem.” No, it’s true that it could be, it could be, certainly.
It happens that some little ones get sick. It can happen, but in general it
isn’t a psychiatric problem. Is it a problem of dissatisfaction? Well, yes. But
what’s at the bottom of that lack of joy? It’s a problem of celibacy. I shall
explain. You, seminarians, nuns, consecrated your love to Jesus, a great love.
Your heart is for Jesus, and this leads us to make the vow of chastity, the vow
of celibacy. However, the vow of chastity and the vow of celibacy do not end at
the moment of the vow; they go on. It’s a journey that matures, which matures
towards pastoral paternity, towards pastoral maternity, and when a priest is
not the father of his community, when a nun is not the mother of all those with
whom she works, they become sad. This is the problem. Given this, I say to you:
the root of sadness in pastoral life lies, in fact, in the lack of paternity
and maternity that comes from living this consecration badly, which instead
should lead us to fruitfulness. We can’t think of priests or nuns who aren’t
fruitful: this isn’t Catholic! This isn’t Catholic! This is the beauty of
consecration: it is joy, joy …
[Translation by ZENIT]
(July 09, 2013) © Innovative Media Inc.
July 17, 2013
How to know you have a vocation to the religious life?
Picture: http://catholiclivingtoday.blogspot.com |
I was asked to share with you some thoughts on how a person knows they have a vocation to the religious life. It is difficult to pin that down because a vocation is first of all a mystery. God does not just Jump out of the sky and tap us on the shoulder or knock us off a horse the way He did with some people in the Bible. Ordinarily God uses very ordinary instrumental means to let us know what He is calling us to, and that is always a mysterious thing. It is very personal to each one of us. I can't give you any absolute rules for this. I guess, in one sense, the wonderful thing is - that God respects our individuality and treats us all as persons. He respects our freedom and he wants us to use our heads and hearts in trying to discern our vocation. Remember that famous line in A Man For All Seasons, where Thomas More says something like "God made the animals to serve Him by instinct blindly but He made man to serve Him wittingly." That is, to use his wits. We have to use our wits to try to discern what God is asking of us.
To read the whole article: http://www.vocations.com/discern/signs_pable.html
July 15, 2013
A Short Passage From Pope John Paul II Message on the World Day of Prayer for Vocations (2001)
Theme: "Life as a vocation".
We need ordained ministers who are "in different times and places the permanent guarantee of the sacramental presence of Christ, the Redeemer" (Christifideles laici, 55) and who, in their preaching of the Word and celebration of the Eucharist and the other Sacraments, guide Christian communities on the paths of eternal life.
We need men and women who, by their witness, "remind the baptized of the fundamental values of the Gospel", and who foster "in the People of God an awareness of the need to respond with holiness of life to the love of God poured into their hearts by the Holy Spirit, by reflecting in their conduct the sacramental consecration which is brought about by God's power in Baptism, Confirmation or Holy Orders" (Vita consecrata, 33).
To Read the Whole Message: http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/messages/vocations/documents/hf_jp-ii_mes_20001125_xxxviii-voc-2001_en.html
April 16, 2010
Modesty and Men
From: http://blog.adw.org/
We have had three great discussions on the blog in recent months regarding modesty, HERE and HERE and HERE. In my post some weeks ago I did not distinguish between men and women for the matter in question was dirty dancing which involves both. However, the conversation turned inexorably to women and girls, what they wear and how they should behave. I also note that 90% of the commentators were women. Last week Laura raised the question of modest beachwear and focused especially on the bikini. Here too the majority of the commentators were women and the conversation was mostly about what was proper for women and girls.
However, in both conversations there were a few comments that expressed irritation that questions of modesty always seem to center on women and little is said about men. I was asked by a few to blog about men and modesty and perhaps set forth some principles for men and boys. Here is my humble attempt and I ENCOURAGE you to add to the discussion for I am no expert on this. I really propose only to set the table and put out a few items on the lazy Susan. This discussion is really pot luck so make your contribution too.
Perhaps a few opening principles and premises to frame the discussion.
- Men and women are quite different when it comes to questions of attraction and arousal. While there are many individual variances, as a general rule men are much more likely to be immediately interested by way of visual stimulation. Attraction for women seems a bit more complicated and subtle. For men there seems to be a pretty quick trip-wire whereas for women it often seems that a series of switches need to be thrown in the right combination. Men can become interested very quickly and easily. Beauty, shape, posture, the way she walks, all of this is like eye candy to men. It does not seem to me that most women are this easily caught into the cycle of interest and arousal though there are exceptional persons and moments. Rather than say women are never like this, what I am saying is that it seems a far less common occurence for women. For men it may happen hundreds of times a day
- Compassion and understanding and sobriety - Some are sharply critical of men with regard to their quickly roving eye. The most extreme form of it comes with expressions like “Men are pigs.” We will talk in moment of the fact that men have to take some responsibility for this aspect of who they are but here at the beginning perhaps some understanding is in order. Men do not simply or freely choose to have this almost instant-on switch. It sort of comes built in and the off switch is not easy to find. Men are drawn very quickly, almost instantly, by beauty. Of itself this is not evil. God surely means for beauty to attract. The problem comes with our fallen nature that frequently desires inordinately or inappropriately. But the point to make here is that rather than simply denounce men as pigs it may be more appropriate merely to be sober about the fact that men have strong desire in this regard. Due to the fallen nature we all have this desire is often difficult to control perfectly. It is part of our human condition. Part of modesty for women it seems is a kind of strategy in this regard as well as a kind of charity. As a strategy, modesty helps keep unwanted attention within reasonable levels. As a form of charity modesty accepts the fact that men are easily tempted to unchaste thoughts and takes reasonable measures to assist men in this regard.
- Reasonable expectations – Now reasonable is an important word. Women cannot be expected to take unreasonable measures to protect men in this regard. Men are attracted by a LOT of things and invisibility is not reasonable or possible to demand of women.
- Hence, men must also develop self discipline, custody of the eyes and careful discretion. Jesus speaks of looking at a woman with lust as a serious sin (Matt 5:28 ). It is one thing to notice that a woman is beautiful, that is usually good and natural. But it is another to stare intently at her and sexually fantasize about her. This is to cross a line. For many men such a standard seems impossible to fully meet. But in effect Jesus is offering a freedom and a power over what goes on in our minds. Through self-discipline, daily prayer, the sacraments and scripture it is possible to have increasing authority over our thought life. Jesus would not command it if it were not possible. It is a usual fact that self discipline increases over time and we who are men OUGHT to be growing in this and not just indulge our every thought and desire and be stuck in lust. Progress in this matter is to be insisted upon.
- Political incorrectness alert! – In the end life is not always fair and modesty issues are simply going to weigh more heavily on women. This is for two reasons. First women have more to cover. It is simply a fact that the female body, at least in our culture, has more of what we can simply term here as private areas. These areas arouse significant sexual interest in men and however much we may want that to change in a big way, it probably isn’t going to dramatically change. Secondly since men are more easily tempted in these matters, it seems reasonable that women ought to take this into account. Surely we can only expect what is reasonable, but prudence and charity ought to be operative in such matters.
What of Modesty for men in terms of clothes and behavior.
- Tight and tiny swimwear for men seems just as inappropriate for men as for women. There is simply no good reason to wear tiny speedo suits outside of certain very limited swim-racing situations. The purpose is obviouslyto arouse sexual interest and to display what ought not be displayed. Further, I will say, most men look just plain silly wearing such swimwear. Larger “boxer-shorts” style bathing suits seem far more appropriate.
- Going shirtless should be limited. I am not aware that women are all that tempted by shirtless men, even those who are slender and muscular. But if the women on this blog tell us men that it is at times problematic then we ought to stop. A further concern about going shirtless other than in beach settings and limited sports settings is that it just seems a bit rude and far too casual. Our society has become so casual about everything. Men walking through city parks without shirts just seems too informal and frankly I don’t care for it. Such behavior was not commonly accepted in this country prior to the 1960s. Find a cool and comfortable shirt men and wear it. It does not belong tied around your waist. Neither should your t-shirt be pulled up over the back of your head to expose your belly and chest. It’s just ugly, inelegant and far too casual for public parks. Save it for the back yard or the beach.
- Saggy drawers have to go – no one cares to see your underwear. Please! Pull your pants up. This dumb trend that emerged from gansta culture is thankfully on the wane but it isn’t disappearing fast enough.
- Tight fitting jeans and open shirts are retro and wrong. Back in the 1970s we went through a lot of dopey stuff where men’s fashions started to take on rather feminine notions. The disco era brought this to its high point. It was an era of extremely tight jeans. Men started unbuttoning their shirts two and three buttons down. In those days hairy chests were in and an exposed hairy chest with gold necklaces was not uncommon. Jeans were worn low and large belt buckles to draw the look below the belt were being worn. Boots were also often worn. It was all silly and stupid looking: Men getting dolled up. The purpose was to strut your stuff. Men trying to sexualize themselves. I don’t really remember what the women thought at that time. Were they attracted by this? That seems to have been the purpose and if it was meant to tempt women, it was wrong. Every now and then these retro fashions try to make a come back. Bottom line is that men should dress modestly in loose fitting comfortable clothing. Shirts should be buttoned. Large belt buckles or things to draw attention to the waist are inappropriate and can be sinful.
- I’ll never get used to men wearing earrings. This many not pertain to modesty per se and I know men whom I respect that have earrings. But I’ll never get used to it and live for the day when earrings on a man are gone from the scene.
- Wear a suit more often – Our culture is so casual. Suits and Ties are getting rare. Many men no longer even know how to tie a Tie. They have to ask their mother. Go to http://artofmanliness.com/ a learn how to tie a tie and read the three-part series on purchasing and wearing a decent suit. It is modest and professional. We priests too need to stop bumming around and learn the art of wearing our clerical attire well, to include a tailored cassock: http://www.clergyapparel.com/
- Men should behave modestly. Sexual jokes, immodest conversations, improper posture and the like are wrong. Men are exceptionally poor today at curbing their behavior in mixed company. Learning to be a gentleman is a lost art. Immodest behavior, scurrilous jokes, remarks about women’s bodies and the like are bad enough around other men, but they take on added ugliness in the presence of women. Men must learn to treat women with respect. They should not be treated as or thought of as sexual objects. Men should consider that the purpose of dating is to find a wife not just to have fun and “play the field.” If a man realizes that the purpose of dating is to look for a wife, he may well behave differently. This woman may not just be my next sexual partner, she may well be my wife and the mother of my children. More than clothing, men’s biggest problem with modesty is how they regard and treat women. I know it is complicated and women send confusing signals. But in the end we have to be men. And real men treat women with respect. they do not seek to conquer them or merely have them. They seek to love them, provide for them and cling to them as a spouse. The Bible says that a man clings to his wife. That is what a man does. Boys play. Men are modest and respectful around women and seek to form proper, lasting and deep relationships with them.
Comments are wide open. I have not been without controversy I am sure. I am especially interested in what women might have to say about ways we men might be more modest. It is not all that clear to most men how women might be tempted. The more we can know the more we can improve.
Be careful everyone to remember that this is a “family blog.” Mature topics like this sometimes require that we be artful in our descriptions so as not to offend the pious, the young or even each other.
December 11, 2009
Dolores Hart: How a movie actress left Hollywood for a contract with God
The following article was written by Barbara Cloud of the Post-Gazette (April 8, 1998)
She was so pretty. And so talented.
Her name was Dolores Hart, and her movie file is bulging with typical studio promotion pictures with actors like George Hamilton, Stephen Boyd and Jeff Chandler.
It was back in the early '60s, and she was headed for stardom when, abruptly, it ended.
Why it ended is a touching story that came to mind when I was watching "Entertainment Tonight" a few weeks ago.
They were going to interview the young woman who had given Elvis Presley his first movie kiss in "King Creole." The year was 1958.
The actress was Dolores Hart.
The question she always got in interviews during her movie career (and, afterwards, on "ET" it would seem) was "What is it like kissing Elvis?"
Was it embarrassing to be asked such a question? Was that to be her legacy?
She was amused when I asked her recently, and not the least bit shy.
"I think the limit for a screen kiss back then was something like 15 seconds. That one has lasted 40 years."
And she chuckled a bit at the memory.
There is far more to this beautiful woman than that kiss, believe me.
I wrote her after seeing her that night on "ET." My letter simply stated how good it was to see her looking so well and, obviously, expressing delight that her decision to leave the movies, a difficult one to be sure, had turned out so well. She was happy. It had been the right thing to do.
How could she give up her dream of being an actress?
Her answer was simple. "How could I not?"
She calls me a friend, but we had not been in touch for 35 years. Our connection was through my job as a reporter for The Pittsburgh Press.
She came here twice, the first time in 1960 to promote the film "Where the Boys Are," and each time it was a pleasant meeting, and I felt very comfortable talking to her.
But on her second promotion tour to Pittsburgh in 1963 she was a different person, distracted and introspective. I noticed the change but didn't think much of it, until I read a few weeks later she had left the film industry to enter the monastic life at Abbey of Regina Laudis in Bethlehem, Conn.
Four years later, in 1967, I heard from her again. She explained why she had seemed pensive and withdrawn during our last meeting, although by then I knew. I wanted to do a story about her new life, but she wasn't ready for that.
"It wasn't that I didn't like the media. I found it stimulating. And I wasn't running from it. But when you decide to do this you must give all of yourself, just as I gave all of myself when I was an actress."
The letter she wrote to me as Sister Judith, before her final vows, detailed to some extent the anguish she was experiencing at that time.
"It was really a nightmare," she wrote, "in that I was so absorbed in coming here at the time, my heart was hardly able to contain anything else. Naturally it was also the one thing I could not speak about, so my memory fails in recalling much about that era."
I more or less forgot about Dolores Hart after that, but now she was on the phone, still showing the gracious manner she had as an actress, but more than that, willing to answer all my questions, friend to friend.
There is a reason she is suddenly "out there" and it has to do with a CD called "Women in Chant," which features the choir of Benedictine nuns at Regina Laudis singing Gregorian chants. Sales benefit the work of the abbey.
Mother Dolores Hart, O.S.B., is credited with the cover photo of the night-blooming cereus (as ethereal as Georgia O'Keeffe's two jimson weeds in oil to my eyes), and she is also part of the choir, although she never considered herself a singer.
For that matter, she never saw herself as a nun.
It was not a lifelong dream," she said. "I did not grow up wanting to be a nun. I wanted to be an actress. If it had ever been suggested I would one day be a nun, it would have been the last thing on my mind. It was a million to one shot I would ever be a nun."
She was an only child, and she was not raised Catholic. An omen toward her future might have been her own request to convert to Catholicism when she was 10. Or a photo from a film she did in 1960 in which the statue of St. Francis of Assisi in Rome loomed behind her, arms outstretched.
She did not know at that time, but the lure of the religious life had begun.
"As a child I was precocious," she said. "My parents married when they were 16 and 17 and both were beautiful people. Moss Hart offered my mother, Harriett, a contract but by then they had me and my father, Bert Hicks, a bit player, definitely a Clark Gable type, had movie offers so we moved from Chicago to Hollywood. I was a Hollywood brat. We lived in Beverly Hills and I used to visit the lots with him. He had a bit part in 'Forever Amber.' I always wanted to be part of that life."
She realized a new direction in her life, she said, began while she was appearing on Broadway in 1958 in "The Pleasure of His Company" with such renowned actors as Cyril Ritchard, Cornelia Otis Skinner, Charles Ruggles, Walter Abel and a former Carnegie Tech student, George Peppard.
She had already been asked to re-create her role in the film version of the play and she was very excited about that. Then, one night Debbie Reynolds came to see the play and she was taking notes during the performance. Dolores Hart realized she was not going to be in the movie and it was a big blow to her.
But other things were also happening.
"A friend suggested visiting this very tranquil place in Connecticut one weekend and it was Regina Laudis Abbey," she said. "After that, whenever I was on the East Coast, I would go there. I began to notice each time I went it was becoming harder and harder to leave. I had this feeling. I was home."
A few years passed and she continued doing movies until one titled "Lisa," which dealt with the Holocaust and experiments done on prisoners at Auschwitz, sparked something inside her.
"It affected me so deeply and more and more I found myself drawn to the abbey, almost like magnetism."
When she entered the abbey Sister Judith was selected as her name because she was, after all, starting a new life. A new name seemed appropriate, but when she made her final vows she changed it to Sister Dolores. It was also a wish from her mother, to keep the name Dolores.
"Hal Wallis wanted to call me Susan when I started my movie career," she recalled, "but I was under age and my mother would not hear of it. She wanted me to be Dolores."
Mother Dolores calls her life as a Benedictine nun "an island of enclosure." It is a monastic life that includes prayers at several hours of the day, including 2 a.m. It is a structured life with little time for much else than handling chores on the farm and woodlands involving 359 acres. The land maintains the community, the group of 40 women of various professional backgrounds.
Friends send movies to the abbey and she watches more than many of the other nuns because of her background, but there usually isn't time to see many. She watched "Titanic" and she had hoped Dame Judi Dench would win the Oscar for "Mrs. Brown."
Would Hollywood ever see her return?
The odds, she says, are a million to one.
But those were the same odds she would ever become a nun.
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